Why does society hate virgins and respect those who commit adultery? When will healthy sexual abstinence and righteous living come into fashion?

Why does society hate virgins and respect those who commit adultery? When will healthy sexual abstinence and righteous living come into fashion?

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answers (7)

Answer 1
September, 2021

And what kind of country is this where virgins are hated? I've never heard of this. In most countries, in any society, it is believed that it is strange to be a virgin if you are already over twenty-five years old - this indicates an inability to normal adaptation in society. But there is no question of hatred.

Answer 2
September, 2021

The first part of the "question" is the author's imagination. I believe that it is everyone's personal business to choose the style of sexual behavior. I may approve of it or not, but “hating” is just stupidity.

The second part is generally mysterious. Is it possible that someone prevents the questioner from engaging in sexual abstinence and "righteous living" ?! And I wonder why the questioner of the criterion of "righteousness" - in underpants?

Answer 3
September, 2021

Because - they are a mirror for them. In him this "majority" sees its abomination. In general, this applies to any behavior that does not correspond to the behavior of the aggressively obedient majority. General principle: darkness always rages when your light falls on it.

Answer 4
September, 2021

Well - he does not hate, rather it is - funny ... It is known that by the age of 30 he tears a virgin - to pieces. Like that hamster from a drop of nicotine. :)

"righteous life" - in the sense of a puritanical diktat, as in (all the same - only relatively) in the Middle Ages or Victorian? p>

Answer 5
September, 2021

Sexual life is natural for a person, but abstinence from it is not. Therefore, the refusal to have sex for any reason is perceived as a deviation from human nature. Of course, this cannot be called hatred, but vigilance and rejection is quite.

And the religious attitude to restrain and enslave sexual behavior, which you are talking about, is the essence of the basic control mechanism - nothing neurotic and subdues a person like sexual taboos.

Answer 6
September, 2021

I would not say that he directly hates. Rather, it is now in vogue to have a huge number of sexual partners, and as early as possible, and young people have always reached out and reach for everything that is fashionable at the moment.

Answer 7
September, 2021

Healthy sexual abstinence from the point of view of medicine and health does not exist. This is literally an oxymoron. Therefore, if it does come into fashion, then only if we descend to the Middle Ages. However, Russia has not long left. From the point of view of psychology, abstinence is often a consequence of narcissistic neurosis, which isolates a person from society and interferes with adaptation to it. Messy relationships are also not a safe way of life. It is always good only in moderation.

Well, you should not generalize in a maximalistic way either, especially if you are not a child. There is no hatred of virgins, even at school. A maximum of jokes and even then in the low-intellectual regions of the country, as far as I know now.

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