Why am I not really interested in anything and how can I start to be interested in anything?
Except the beaten one: "JUST you didn't find your calling", "try new" etc.?

Why am I not really interested in anything and how can I start to be interested in anything? Except the beaten one: "JUST you didn't find your calling", "try new" etc.?

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Answer 1
January, 2021

Maybe you are just interested in a little bit of everything and you quickly switch to something else? Well, it doesn't matter, switch over and enjoy it. Maybe someday it will trample you in some way

Answer 2
January, 2021

Difficult, but it works.
Just put all the ways to kill time aside (computer, TV, etc.), sit down and wait. Where will pull - then yours. If not, start over.

Answer 3
January, 2021

Surprisingly, the right word you picked up, start wondering. You are probably already annoyed by this simple, but in order to do something, you need to start to be interested in something. It's very simple. I will try to help.

  1. School provides the first impetus for choosing a vocation. Surprisingly, what comes easy for you is usually what you enjoy. Therefore, write down on a piece of paper all the sciences that were in school, and cross out what you definitely do not like.
    I don’t believe in the division of techie / humanist, but if you believe, it will be easy enough for you to discard half of the 12-14 items that you had. There are seven left. Remember, what subjects did you not have to strain at all?
    If all subjects were equally difficult / light, then try to narrow the circle down to two subjects. Just put objects on the scales, and try each of them on yourself, without thinking about prestige, do not imagine yourself in 20 years, you don’t need this. Which one will outweigh - leave. Thus, at one time I still had biology, English.
  2. Okay. None of the subjects taught at school suited you. Then it is worth considering the creative professions . Musicians, painters, sculptors, craftsmen. All this is not taught in school. It's nice to imagine yourself as a rock star, or the new Picasso. However, do not rush headlong. Always consider escape routes. If you haven't done it up to this point, the only thing left for you to do is start trying. It does not take much time.

For example, I spent only 2 years (during which I tried everything I could: agriculture, painting, music, sports) to understand that I am not a musician. But I knew it for sure, as well as the fact that I did not lose these years - from each alteration I went out with new friends, each of them may be useful to you in the future.
You may be good at it, but do not get hung up on one.

  1. There is what is not taught anywhere else. These are innate talents. You come here as soon as you try everything you can try. At this moment, it dawns on you: "How could I not understand before? I have sculpted the best since childhood, but the school took all the time for this ..."

Don't give in panic. If this is your calling, you will come back and catch up.
And a little advice, if you will. Do not regret anything and never.

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