What to do with yourself in order to forget the person with whom you have been in perfect harmony for 5 years and if 8 months have already passed, but you still cannot forget?

What to do with yourself in order to forget the person with whom you have been in perfect harmony for 5 years and if 8 months have already passed, but you still cannot forget?

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Answer 1
July, 2021

I absolutely do not understand how you can not forget. At least in the next 6-12 months, only the warmest moments will be remembered, which are superimposed on the already grown affection. If not distracted - pain :(
On the contrary, you need to think too much to get tired. To get sick. Listening to music when you want to write / call, as if replacing a person with tracks. A strange way, probably, but it helps me a lot.
And then every day you want to live, you want to change, and the old looks no longer with such hungry eyes, on the contrary, the joy that you have become better. Then you understand how wonderful it is that everything has let go.

Answer 2
July, 2021

It depends more on the person. How attached he was. In general, the departure of another person from your life is comparable to the death of a relationship. Someone goes through this stage quickly, someone experiences it during many years of life.

It is important not to run away from these experiences, but to live them. There are several stages of grief, determine which one you are in: denial of the real situation;

angry at oneself, at another person, at the whole world;

bargaining with someone in order to return everything as it was, while I will or will not do something, the main thing is that everything is returned;

guilt before oneself, before another person;

depression ;

acceptance of the situation as it is.

Only after living through these stages can you return to a full life. But even having lived them, this does not mean that you will completely forget the person, this is not necessary, because the person gave you a lot and went with you an important stage in your life. Remembering and remembering about him is great, but it will not be so painful.

Answer 3
July, 2021

I absolutely agree, you shouldn't forget, you should transfer yourself "to a new wave". What was, what was, put it in a box and put it in the locker and don't open it again, why should you be upset again. Then, keep yourself occupied with something, and not in terms of work, but in terms of a hobby: if possible, fly away somewhere, new places bring new impressions. If this is not possible, sign up for some courses or classes, Shooting, for example, or can bake cookies. Just occupy yourself with something, and the feelings will pass, it's just that everyone has this period a little different. Do not fade!

Answer 4
July, 2021

Is it worth forgetting something?
I don’t think it’s so easy to get rid of the five years of my life spent with a person, and there’s hardly any need for that. Either way, these are memories, these are experiences that just have to be left behind. It is important to remember what this period taught you and what it gave you, without negative emotions or, heaven forbid, the desire to return everything. You need to learn as much useful information as possible from the past and move forward, remembering the stage that made you better.

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