Good afternoon. If you find out that your friend is using drugs. He certainly needs help. Sometimes people trapped in addiction do not know the way out of there. Feelings of shame and guilt prevent you from seeking help. And false beliefs that he will surely cope on his own, burden his use. Modern drugs have a quick and destructive effect and a person is not able to cope on his own. Your friend needs a helping hand. To convey to him that there is a way out. Offer your help. And then step back. Give him the opportunity to make a decision on his own. If this did not happen and you see that he is dying, give information about the rescue of your friend to his loved ones.
First, let's figure out what kind of drugs your friend uses? Opiates? Special help is urgently needed. For the rest, you can do with the efforts of your family and loved ones.
For example, I am a convinced humanist, so I consider the choice of a person extremely important, because he himself wanted it. But this situation is really difficult. I think many people have reached the point that the mind is still higher than animal instincts, which, again, brings us back to the fact that everyone decides for himself what to do and what life path to choose. Here you need to understand why a person began to use and why he continues. If he likes it, and he believes that there is no dependence, and, accordingly, problems too, I do not think that your persuasion and fiery speeches can help. But after all, not every drug is addictive, moreover, it matters how often a person resorts to use. Many creative people are addicted to this, and this does not mean at all that they are all drug addicts. If your friend himself understands that he cannot stop using because an addiction has appeared, then you can try to direct him on the right path, but not the fact that this will help. Convinced drug addicts, alas, cannot be cured until they themselves want to. They can get on the mend if some significant event occurs for them that can specifically change their views and turn their world upside down, or a person for whom it is worth trying. There is such a friend. I sat on heroin, but realizing what position I was in, I pulled myself together, got my willpower into a fist and, without any help, climbed out on my own. Now he is quite a solid and successful adult man. At that time he had a girlfriend, now they are married and have two adorable children. Keep in mind that everything is individual, and the person's beliefs in this situation play a huge role. Only man himself can pull himself out of this swamp. And if this hobby of a friend does not interfere with your communication, in addition to the fact that after talking about the dangers of drugs, he moves away, maybe you do not need to put pressure on him and hammer your own. Still, I think that drug addiction is not particularly amenable to outside influence. Here only man himself is free. I understand that it is very difficult to watch such a thing, but nothing really can be done.
There was the same situation in life, my girlfriend weaned me off drugs. I can say a few things: 1. Never beat him 2. Take drugs and destroy them in front of his eyes 3. All the time "drip" on his brain and say that it is very harmful 4.If the above points did not help, then come up with a dangerous threat for him Personally it affected me. Good luck.
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