I am from a country where 180 cm is already a rarity. And I dream of not looking like my big sister at parties. No need to worry about this. Nicholas Hoult, Ben Affleck, Lee Pace, Armie Hammer, Hozier (right?) Jason Mamoa and many more men taller than 190 cm, choose your type and go ahead.
The main thing is not slouching
I accidentally overheard a colleague recently advising a tall man.
"When you talk, you are trying to look shorter than the interlocutor.
And try to look at your interlocutors FROM THE HEIGHT OF YOUR GROWTH."
In my opinion, the advice of the Master.
Accept the given :) it is what it is: why worry about what already exists and what cannot be changed? And then ... Tall men are beautiful. Tall and athletic men are kryshesnos :) so can you really stop slouching (advice is 5 points higher))) and already realize your unrealistically cool advantage? :)
Strange as it may seem - to get a little bit angry, hardened, and holed up. (But do not bullshit, so that in the open!) Get used to perceive that it is not you who are too tall next to others, but on the contrary, they are dirty undersized!)) (In Holland, you would merge with the crowd). In any case, all those who give you something and somehow once again open their nasty tongue about growth. And learn to weed out your social circle.
Sharpen to see their shortcomings, and understand their complexes. The little ones are fucked up, what shy ones! They are, in fact, unrealistically jealous of you. But these are their problems - you don't owe them anything! They are being trampled down - you are a boss in the subway. Learn a set of offensive expressions to refer to small ones: gnome, shibzdik, pendulum, shmondik, shket, carl, small, microbe, hummingbird and many others. Every time they show you that you are tall, and they are too high up to you, explain that they are too small, and you can't hear a shit from them - let them buy a stepladder. Do you forgive his sidekick about "Uncle Styopa"? So he MUST swallow all of the above in response. For don’t dick!
I can’t remember - one of the films with Steven Seagal. 1980s In short, he is chasing such a petty Italian mafioso in America. And you understand that now this small infection will not go anywhere. Yes, yes, this time a tall handsome uncle will catch up and arrange everything as it should. 5-7 minutes of pure buzz. I think this passage is very suitable for relieving stress.
If you suddenly play ... basketball (for God's sake, forgive me for the very mention, in case you don't play ;-)), then this paragraph you can not read. And so, for a long time, I established a rule for myself: the one who mentions it at the first meeting, loses points 50-60 in my eyes. Whoever mentions a few more times (even with an apologetic stupid smile like "gee-gee") is an untermensch, and not my society.
In general, when friends, willingly or unwillingly, remember something about growth more than once every six months, send it. Normal self-sufficient people will not pay much attention to this, and will understand that the bazaar on this topic is rotten.
In the first year, in ancient times, a psychologist gave a task: describe in brief a fellow student / fellow student. One and issued: "Too big." I thought: "You are too small! And besides, you are a fool!" Then I tried to frame myself, accidentally put my foot on my thigh. Oh, fuck you!)
Little girls love to assert themselves by meeting guys under two meters. But do not flatter yourself that you will break off easy sex on their part. They are already 50% satisfied that you go hand in hand with them. And when you sit down on one knee to kiss the hand, they will completely finish. And it doesn't matter that you are with them in public - like an idiot. And, honestly, you are more turned on by those who, at the very least, fit the parameters? So, look for them! Those who are afraid that the children will be too tall are idiots, send them three letters. And so, write, for example, on a dating site that below 170 (or above) you are not interested. Why can't you openthen declare your preference? When you, with a height of 198 cm, meet 160, this is not a balance in nature - this is clownery! Think about your spine! Well, or let the lady of the heart carry the aforementioned stepladder herself)))
In everyday cases (the old man starts to play loudly on the bus, the elderly man clucks with admiration), it's better to play "Poker face". And laugh it off calmly. Trying to answer in monosyllables. And mentally figure it out: "... well, what to take from him - an old idiot in a washed cap, who carries seedlings in the train to the country house ... Fuck you!"; "... a hardened hole that no one will ever fuck anymore. So fuck you a horse!" - Well, what to take from the poor?) Yes, the reason for their behavior is a lack of communication. That is, in a person of average height, they will get to the bottom of the hairstyle, beard, shoes, etc.
BUT also, an important point: pick up your wardrobe! You should NOT have "short" things. Nothing should look funny! On the other hand, making a compromise and dressing in what is available for this size in the nearest store is also not an option! Even if you break yourself into a cake, even if only from private tailors and shoe-makers for crazy money, buy something, but you should look the way that fully corresponds to your personal sense of beauty. (If not, then read that it goes tall!) When you feel like you look normal, then everything else will most likely go fine.
Another insert. The prevailing stereotype of tall people: shy, awkward, good-natured and laconic. Fuck these stereotypes! There is a desire to speak loudly and gesticulate - do it all! Let it even be from the outside like a riot of an apocalyptic albotross. What, scared them, poor things? Well, then you are the main ogre here, and let them sit and be afraid!)
P.S .: And don't slouch! Although it's fucking hard ...