What if you are 14 years old and you do not know why and how to live on?

What if you are 14 years old and you do not know why and how to live on?

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answers (4)

Answer 1
June, 2021

For some reason I don't understand, 2 out of 3 commentators attacked you. This is not very smart. As the heroine of one Sofia Coppola film used to say, "Doctor, you just were never a 14-year-old girl." I was. If you are tormented by existential questions, try not to cut your shoulders. Remember that you will always have time to stop living, but you must hurry to live. 14 is a rather stupid age, when you already, it seems, owe everyone something, but you still don't have much. But be patient, it will be better. Start small. Decide what you are interested in: some kind of professional area, hobbies, people, whatever. Develop in this, cling to your interest in these things, from them an interest in life in general will grow. It is precisely from such things that thinking people develop. It is impossible to reflect and love life for nothing, you can love it for interesting work, pleasant surroundings, true friends, exciting adventures. And you are the one who has to arrange all this. Over time, you will understand that it is useless to get hung up on the search for the meaning of life, everyone has their own. And life itself can be very enjoyable if you make it that way. Try every day to expand the limits of what you know: new knowledge, discoveries, impressions and experiences awaken an even greater thirst for life. For example, I recently learned that the Spaniards read and pronounce the letters "c" and "b" in almost the same way. How do they do it? I tried it, it didn't work out for me. Now I just have no right to die until I learn this language. And imagine how many interesting things in life I do not yet know, it awakens in me an incredible desire to live and learn something new.

Answer 2
June, 2021

Finish school, go to university, get married / get married, have children, and go to Egypt. Believe me, more will not be required of you. If you suddenly want something else, you will have to wiggle your brains and not write such topics, since you will not have time for this, since you will start spending on more useful things.

Answer 3
June, 2021

When I was 14, I, not entirely friendly with classmates and not at all popular at school, already had a couple of personal sites on the narod.ru platform, which secretly drove my boy classmates crazy, who believed that girls in general this activity is not available. Considering that life is over and there will never be happiness, I flew to my friend's in Kaliningrad for two weeks, and there, in a tent at the station, I heard very strange music that twisted my brain, and I became a fan of dance electronics. In Moscow, I went to Gorbushka (this was the only place where my parents let me go alone) and there I met a salesman who worked at a trance and house point. Then someone on the Internet suggested to me about the Atmosphere website, the radio broadcasts of one of the first DJs in Russia, Volodya Fonar, and there was a forum there. I didn't know much about that music, but everything was interesting to me, and I entered into a dialogue with one young man, who, ironically, turned out to be that seller on Gorbushka (Ilyusha, hello!) I had a party in which everyone was well over 20 , and I was the youngest in her and my eyes burned more. Probably because everyone went to the clubs to drink and hang out, but for me it was a sacred rite and I was shaking about everything - my mother would let me in or not let me in, let me in on face control or not let me in, whether the DJ would agree to an interview or not.

And honestly, it was the best time, because before that I suffered from complexes and meaninglessness of life, and then suddenly, with the help of a tent at the station, I found myself.

At the age of 19, I experienced something similar , loss of orientation and complete disappointment in myself, but then it took me into my head to learn Japanese and specialize in Japanese art, and that's it. Out of despair, I drew a half-legged dragon tattoo and have been fighting the Japanese language ever since. And by the way, something turns out. Try it, experiment. Favorite business and loved ones will find you by themselves.

Answer 4
June, 2021

Well, since in general there is nothing original in the situation, the answer is quite banal: to live on just like that, not why and how it will turn out. Actually, about 80% of all living people live this way and nothing.

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