What if I'm a teenager, I want to eat less sweets and exercise, but I live next to my grandmother, who every day tries to push something like this? Doesn't respond to normal requests.?

What if I'm a teenager, I want to eat less sweets and exercise, but I live next to my grandmother, who every day tries to push something like this? Doesn't respond to normal requests.?

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Answer 1
September, 2021

Brother, learn to stand on your own, period. You know, when you are like that, "her, I will not" and you "come on" and then you already doubt and such "okay". In short, this is both discipline and willpower, but most importantly, it is the ABILITY TO DEFEND YOUR OPINION!

In short, do it right now, (yes, right now), otherwise you will score, close this tab, and forget, so you will remain bold, hehe) Get up right now, make a speech about what you are if you want, let's say there is less to eat, explain this to yourself first, you can write down all your thoughts on a piece of paper, imagine that you are preparing a presentation for a philosophy lesson, where there is a topic and text of your problem, how important it is, and finally a solution with specific requirements. Read it 4-5 times. Rehearse a little, imagine how you would tell grandma. You're all ready. Now go to your grandmother and say all this and defend it all like in court, as if you were a lawyer. Did not work out ? Come tomorrow, but already change the text taking into account yesterday's dialogue, try not to succeed yet, and with a probability of 101 percent you will succeed, and you will also learn a good lesson that everything is possible, with a competent plan) Good luck

Answer 2
September, 2021

Just stand your ground, using one hundred and five hundred reasons for persuasion. Like, I've already eaten, I don't feel like it, I'm not hungry, etc., and so on. Or take a bun (or whatever grandma offers) with you and say that you will definitely eat it. But on the way home, you feed stray dogs or pigeons / birds.

Or, alternatively, you can say that now you eat only fruits from sweets, they are healthier, because rolls and pretzels (substitute yours) are evil, that's what they said on TV!

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