What if at the age of 14 you don't know what you want to do in the future and you have no interests?

What if at the age of 14 you don't know what you want to do in the future and you have no interests?

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Answers (4)

Answer 1
November, 2020

Even after leaving school, I did not know what I wanted to do, so I went to study where my parents sent me.
Hobby, which actually became my style of life, appeared closer to 20. I know people who started all over again at 30 and 40 - acquired new goals, learned new things (and quite successfully).
So do not be afraid of uncertainty, you always have a chance to find new interests and change your life.

Answer 2
November, 2020

I agree with the answer above. Do what you enjoy, you are satisfied. Any of your tendencies that bring pleasure, or at least interest, should become profiling. Although, it also happens that only in the 4th year of university do you realize that this is not yours at all, and it would be worthwhile to do African studies instead of PR (for example) and leave. Looking for oneself is the eternal problem of man and humanity, so I don't see anything wrong with re-choosing.

Let me give you another example of one person, who is not indifferent to me, who realized who he wanted to be. She wanted to become a musician from an early age (she graduated from music school in two classes). And she didn’t apply right after school. She decided that she would learn more, just to be a person versed in electronic music. Soon she will be admitted, and I have no doubt that she will. I mean that this is a balanced decision, go to this. Someone in her place would have entered the nearest department in order to go for a crust. But no, you need to do what is really interesting to you. I admire such people.

Answer 3
November, 2020

Forget it, this is quite normal. If this continues, it's not scary at all, just take what you do best, and look where they take it with it. When something comes out well, it often creates more interest in the business. And if you suddenly light up with something else, more interesting to you, it doesn't matter, you can switch at least at 18, at least at 20, at least at 35 years old. In the end, there is a second education, and it's just that no one canceled work outside the specialty.

Answer 4
November, 2020

Believe it or not, at this age many people have no plans for the future. Continue to do something, try to devote more time to study, maybe you will find something to your liking. For example, I decided that I wanted to go into the IT sphere, only by the age of 16, and I chose a university in general only a week before submitting documents to it.

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