One and a half years. For the third time. Always stable. No, really, the body is like a clock. The schemes of falling in love are painfully similar to one another. So I don't even think about it and go with the flow, if it doesn't work out, then a year and a half - that's all. Then another six months of the period - somehow something, and then another passion. It's even somehow insulting for such predictability. I think this is compensation for some psychological problem, everything is very much the same)
It became easier after about a month. This is when you consider that we did not communicate practically at all, although we parted ways, remaining in a wonderful relationship. Sometimes she writes to me, sometimes I write. A year has passed, it seems to me that the feelings have not faded away, but knowing that due to certain circumstances we will never be together again, I feel very easy.
Almost immediately, since I was in the army and there was no time to think about how bad everything is and how hard it is to live now. Was constantly busy with something.
There was a slight feeling of resentment, but this is literally one evening. I lay thinking how I spent 6 years with her and it was worth joining the army and everything passed so quickly from her side. And I don’t understand those, then he immediately wants to run away or shoot himself, even in my thoughts!
Even though it was my first love.
According to scientists, in order to cool down and forget your former love, after parting, you need a third of the relationship. I do not believe in this and I think that a month of blues is enough, and then if it does not pass, you need to knock out a wedge with a wedge. for a month nothing but eating, sleeping, watching movies and I don't feel like it ..
In grade 7, I met a girl, very beautiful, always in the spotlight, and I was a little boy with a lot of acne and a bunch of complexes, but I remembered her from that moment forever, for a long time flipping through her pages in social networks, looked through photos and followed her life. So I grew up, I seemed to have forgotten about her, but once meeting in the same bar, my feelings began to play again, the tipsy one decided and nevertheless approached, in the process of communication she said that she did not even remember me, at that moment I was ready to fall through the ground. In the future, we began to communicate more and more, finally the very day came when I achieved my goal and still we slept with her, but after that we did not start any relationship, the sex of friendship continued for several months and all this time I could not find a place for myself, tore myself apart from the inside. As a result, I decided to stop all communication with her and did it with great difficulty. And now the answer to your question. The first few weeks it was very difficult for me, I was torn to pieces, I was constantly depressed, at times irritated, I held back not to write to her, did not go to her pages on social networks and generally tried not to remember this person. In the future, I began to let go and as a result, after a couple of months it turned out that we met, talked and at that moment I realized that such strong feelings that I did not have before, I can calmly communicate with this person without harm to my nervous cells.
Immediately after parting, a month was just hard. I tried to find a place for myself. After two months, I was slowly recovering, and in the third month I was completely released. I think that such a long rehabilitation was due to the fact that they dropped out for the first time, and quite harshly. But now she's best friends. I think I answered your question, although not very interesting.