There is a desire to tell your loved one about your dental problems. I love him, but I'm afraid of his reaction. How to inform him about it?

There is a desire to tell your loved one about your dental problems. I love him, but I'm afraid of his reaction. How to inform him about it?

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answers (2)

Answer 1
April, 2021

I'll tell you with my example. I have a strong curvature of my front teeth, already at the age of 8 (now I am 24) they collapsed, 70% of them consist of filling material. In general, the extensive caries of 80% of the teeth, you do not have time to treat. They cannot be aligned, because when you try to align, the fillings will begin to fall out and the teeth will collapse. We met a girl (now a spouse) on the Internet. We were 1000 km apart. For a long time we talked about everything, went over many topics. It turned out that we are in many ways the same. Over time, the conversation turned to health problems. The girl said that her legs were twisted and at the age of 15 she performed the most difficult and dangerous operation to correct them. A similar operation for a roommate was unsuccessful and she lost her feet. I just said that I was often sick as a child, but now I still have a problem with my teeth. The girl asked to send a photo. I was very worried and shy, but we already had a trusting relationship. In general, nothing terrible happened. She said it was even a little cute, like a child's. Now she considers this to be my only flaw in my appearance, which does not matter to her. And she herself is more worried about her extra couple of pounds, oily skin on her nose and other funny things for me. So it was harder for me as a guy. You don't have to worry too much. But you will do it anyway, because of emotionality. Actually, I don't think you need to confess. Unless only in passing, without specifying what the problem is. We need a personal meeting. It is desirable in the near future to understand everything. Guys don't notice many flaws. Especially if he likes you internally. Behave as usual, and you will understand his reaction. Guys who only look at beauty look exclusively at fleeting relationships. For them, the cover is important to show off to others. Do you need a guy like that, even if you love him? Think about it. I think it's better to suffer from unrequited love than to get into a toxic relationship. Such a guy can be frightened off by your lack. Any normal - no. Therefore, you do not need to think about what was asked at all. After all, this is not the main thing, it is not even included in the top ten important qualities. More than once I saw girls with problem teeth, and their guys were far from average in appearance ... In general, if your man, everything will be fine.

Answer 2
April, 2021

Well, this is such nonsense, to be honest.

Hiding health problems from loved ones is stupid.

In the end, they will touch them one way or another when something is with you. then it will happen already more seriously.

And here's another - if a person cannot support you in such things - then how can you live with him?

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