No one owes anyone anything. Now compare. 1. You leave a tip in a cafe / restaurant and this is the norm. To give money for what they brought you to eat is worthy of payment from the top 2. The medical staff who saved the life, treating you and your children, taking delivery - "redheads" are not worthy?
No need to give anything. Do not corrupt even those who have not yet corrupted. "Thank you so much," and more flowers. It happened from human stupidity, fear and extortion of the doctors themselves. Today the insolence of doctors, and of others, has become enormous. For example, in our school, teachers, on their holiday, by order, force them to hand over money to their table. And not only rent, but also buy, cover.
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