Is it normal to be a virgin / virgin at 20-22 years old?

Is it normal to be a virgin / virgin at 20-22 years old?

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Answer 1
January, 2021

Lack of sexual experience at this age is undesirable in terms of human well-being, but the pressure of society in the absence of such experience cannot be approved. It is all the more undesirable when there is no experience of orgasm during sex and masturbation. Experience of teenage masturbation is desirable, especially for girls, which reduces the likelihood of problems with sexual satisfaction. It is also recommended to try masturbation for women in the absence of an orgasm.

According to surveys among young people, the reasons for the lack of sexual experience girls are more often called "moral considerations" or lack of desire, and guys "lack of opportunity". The reasons for this are the patriarchal oppression of women's own sexuality in matters of desire and satisfaction, and in double standards, when Puritan morality limits women in the first place. This lowers the chances of women for sexual gratification, and also reduces the chances of men to find a sexual relationship. A negative role is played by the society encouraging many men to associate sexuality with violence, aggression and selfishness and the tendency to ignore the interests of women in sex in comparison with the interests of men. For example, when the main form of sex is considered to be vaginal sex or oral gratification of a man, and stimulation of a woman with his or her partner's hand and cunnilingus, in which most women have more chances of orgasm than vaginal sex, are considered only as "foreplay" without the woman's orgasm ending , not as a full-fledged form of sex that can be engaged at any time. Fear of unwanted pregnancies and STDs in the absence of knowledge about contraception can also contribute to sex refusal.

Public pressure on women who have premarital sexual experience, in many cases gives way to pressure on those who have such no experience. There remains pressure on men who have no such experience. At the same time, condemnation of women who are prone to polygamous or short-term relationships persists, and the only norm is often not the refusal of sex before marriage, which was considered the norm in the past, but long-term monogamous relationships. There is also public pressure on women who do not marry when they reach a certain age, or do not have children. For men, in some cases, polygamous or short-term relationships are considered an indicator of masculinity and success, but in general society is more tolerant of men's choice of monogamy or polygamy than of such a choice by women. A person of either gender with no sexual experience or single person should not be considered a “failure,” nor should they draw inferences about the reasons for such behavior, or pressure her or him. One can only talk about the desirability of an equal, protected and satisfying sexual relationship for both partners, so that people make their own choices.

Answer 2
January, 2021

Absolutely normal. This is your life, you can start having sex life whenever you want. You shouldn't even listen to those who reproach you for it.

Answer 3
January, 2021

Absolutely! I subscribe to all of the above. The main thing is that you are comfortable with yourself. I will tell you from personal experience, but this is exactly what I have. Do not be shy, do not think that you are some kind of wrong and do not listen to people whose eyes go to their foreheads when they say that you are still a virgin / virgin. They even tried to make fun of me on this topic, but this only speaks of the upbringing and development of a person. I have never regretted my introduction, let's call it "into adulthood," everything went the way it should. Although my first experience cannot be called ideal and for great love.

Everyone has their own time!

Answer 4
January, 2021

I will supplement Dmitry Richter's answer. In addition to the reasons he named (lack of communication skills, neglected appearance or pathological bad luck with girls), the lack of sex can be caused by asexuality. This is not a disease, but another variant of the norm. Live, rejoice, love, and ignore social prejudices. Your personal life concerns you and nothing else.

Recent article on the topic (English): http://www.wired.com/?p=1687283
Comic: https://new.vk.com/wall-117268139_19

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