If I want to cancel a date because of a horribly painful period, should I tell the guy the truth, or should I come up with another, less "explicit" reason?

If I want to cancel a date because of a horribly painful period, should I tell the guy the truth, or should I come up with another, less "explicit" reason?

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answers (7)

Answer 1
January, 2021

We understand that the reason is serious.
So it's better to say this, I assure you, we will survive it much better than the just thought up "made to go to the dacha" / "went to shop"

Answer 2
January, 2021

You can joke and grimace, you can seriously and openly, you can just say that you are feeling bad, without expanding on the details.

You can.

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Answer 3
January, 2021

From the experience of my relationships with girls, I’ll say that it’s better for me to say directly what I’m telling them about this at some stage of the relationship.

I will both understand and try to help somehow (pain relieving or something tasty to distract) to the best of my ability.

But the average temperature in the ward shows that girls are often uncomfortable talking about this (even after my direct request), because it is not accepted and all that. There is even some indignation about the fact - "Why do you need to know, you guy." In such cases, I pretend that I swallowed the tale of 100 and 1 reasons why the date was covered and I will tactfully try to distract you by phone.

Answer 4
January, 2021

There is nothing disgusting or shameful in menstruation - a normal physiological process, and therefore you should not be shy about them. Rather, a guy who does not know anything about menstruation and because of this is afraid of it should be ashamed of his narrow outlook (and you need to know at least so that later funny stories worthy of women's forums do not happen to him).
Well, yes, if, in your opinion, there is trust between you, then hiding even such small things is somehow not cool.

Answer 5
January, 2021

I would be absolutely normal about this fact. Even if it was the first date.

I think you shouldn't be shy about it. There is nothing terrible or strange about this.

Answer 6
January, 2021

Depends on the degree of trust and closeness to the guy. If you are dating for a long time, tell me. He will help you to overcome this period. Moreover, if everything is serious with him - all the better to say. Sooner or later it will be revealed anyway.

If there is a candy-bouquet period, it is better to come up with something else, otherwise it will ruin all the romance of his expectation of your meeting.

Answer 7
January, 2021

Well, it depends on the trust of your relationship. If you say that to him, it’s like a sign that you take dating very seriously.

Well, it depends on the guy, no doubt. My brother would be shocked, I would calmly accept. But here, I think, my brother will be closer to the average temperature in the ward, hehe.

In general, if the guy is not a doctor, the experience will be acute :)

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