I have two best friends with whom I study, but I always feel lonely, regardless of the situation. And for the last week I have been crying every day for all sorts of trifles. I don't know what to do with this?

I have two best friends with whom I study, but I always feel lonely, regardless of the situation. And for the last week I have been crying every day for all sorts of trifles. I don't know what to do with this?

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Answer 1
September, 2021

Who are our friends, we learn at the end of life.

Perhaps they are not the people your soul is looking for.

Perhaps you are distracted by some other problem and therefore you have no time for girlfriends. But you are not aware of this, but you are next to them, but with your thoughts in something else. And the brain gets annoyed because it used to be comfortable with them, but now something is not right, but something is clearly not clear. Meet other people, compare people. Be alone, draw, do what you enjoyed as a child, and the decision will come to you by itself)

Answer 2
September, 2021

When you say best friend or friend, you somehow idealize people, which is not worth doing. The name itself makes it clear that you expect a lot from them, because they are the BEST friends. It seems to me that you may have such an idea that you cannot imagine yourself without them in principle.

First, you need to spend AT LEAST one day alone with yourself, without tears, without hysteria, just introspection and prioritization for yourself.

Secondly, do not get hung up on these two girls, look around, take a closer look at people, get to know them better. It's clear that you don't need to ignore those girls, but you shouldn't depend on them and their communication either.

  • How can you spend a day of "Self-Analysis": talk to your parents, write your thoughts, feelings on a piece of paper or record on a dictaphone and re-read / play many times, recognize yourself, try to understand yourself. *

Don't be afraid, you are not alone. Do not be upset and do not cry. Everything will work out)

Answer 3
September, 2021

It's one thing to be friends, and even very close, and it's another to have a person who knows how to listen correctly, and moreover, to answer correctly.

Trust is very valuable, but in itself does not solve problems, more that it is in front of loved ones that we are afraid to become vulnerable so as not to disappoint them, or not to upset them.

If you really need to talk, speak out and solve some problem, write to me, my VKontakte is written in the profile, just tell me that you are from here, from the question

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