I have sexual problems. There is no sexual partner and I don't like masturbating. But the sexual arousal is tired. How to get rid of?

I have sexual problems. There is no sexual partner and I don't like masturbating. But the sexual arousal is tired. How to get rid of?

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Answer 1
August, 2021

To get rid of an obsessive desire, first of all, stop thinking about sex - in general, forbid yourself to do this, do not watch erotic films, do not read such literature. Usually, what you think about is what you want. Switch your attention to other things, for example, sports, health, learning the necessary knowledge, and realizing your dreams. Well, use less sweets - excess sugar in the body causes such unnecessary conditions. And if you succeed in doing all this, then believe me, if your problem does not disappear, it will decrease a lot.

Answer 2
August, 2021

Problems are when something disturbs, causes dissatisfaction, inconvenience. Lack of sex and pleasure from masturbation is not a problem as long as you are comfortable with it. There are many other reasons for joy and happiness in life. If you consider this a problem, then you need to think about what exactly bothers you. Why is it inconvenient for you. This can reveal the real cause of the problem.

If you are uncomfortable with sexual arousal, you need to change your lifestyle so that there are no conditions for it to occur. The easiest way is to release excess accumulated substances and so neutralize the excess of hormones in the body. You can treat it like a hygiene procedure or like a toilet. That is, just how to get rid of unnecessary substances. In addition, you can devote more time to physical activity, exercise, so that some of the substances are spent on muscle growth. In addition, you can change your diet by reducing the amount of cholesterol foods you need to make hormones. There is another way. Just refrain. First, the body will excrete excess substances during sleep. And after 2-3 months of complete abstinence, the body itself will reduce the production of substances, and the arousal will decrease.

To come to harmony with the world, it is useful to try to consider yourself as a whole. That is, in your mind to appoint a single chief, the control center. You don't need to divide yourself into two parts: the one that punishes and the one that is punished. The organism is one, and the consciousness in it is one. Many unpleasant things happen in life, natural disasters, bad people who do not understand the consequences of their actions, and cause harm. All this can be lived by making the right conclusions. There is no point in blaming yourself for other people's affairs or for natural processes. You just need to correct your mistakes, if possible. Do not harm yourself, but try to direct all your actions to useful deeds, to what brings you closer to happiness.

Answer 3
August, 2021

In theory, this should stabilize by itself. Write at least how old you are. If you are directly bursting with the desire to have sex with someone, then you should try to put this energy somewhere. Send in a different direction. For example, in creativity. Try to write a story about how a certain woman suffered from nymphomania, nothing was nice to her, and how then she threw out her dirty desires on some shy, bespectacled and pimply boy. And she felt better. And you will feel better.

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