I feel inhibited with unfamiliar guys when they look after me. I don't even feel sympathy until a few months of friendship have passed. What to do?

Sorry. I will answer as in Hebrew - a question. What to do with you? Well, how do you see the possibility of a relationship with you? Maybe this is the answer to your question?

I, too, always wanted to first communicate with a girl, make friends, and then smoothly start a relationship ... But I have not seen this in reality. And as a result of this approach: the girls begin to be friends with me, communicate openly, invite me to events ... and immediately find themselves another guy. After all, I'm just a friend. It's stupid.

This is completely normal. In a relationship, you need to do what you like, what is pleasant. As it develops, so it develops. I was also friends with my future husband for several months, although there was sympathy from the very beginning.

What to do? To do nothing. It is you, your world, your cockroaches in your head, your experience, and that's okay. This is much better than letting in close unfamiliar people in the first period of acquaintance. Seriously, looking at people, evaluating them, analyzing them and not rushing into the pool with your head is normal, it's ripe.

You don't have to feel sympathy right away, it's even good that it comes after a few months of friendship, when you can get to know the person better. And at the expense of constraint, this is as convenient for you, if you do not want to feel constrained, then try to treat new acquaintances as well as old friends, if you are interested in communicating with them, if you are not interested in communicating with them, then do not communicate.