I am 17, my boyfriend is 19. Together for a year. We really want a sex life, but I'm afraid that it can somehow harm. Is it so?

I am 17, my boyfriend is 19. Together for a year. We really want a sex life, but I'm afraid that it can somehow harm. Is it so?

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answers (2)

Answer 1
March, 2021

Harm your relationship or harm your health? If you are worried about your health, go to the doctor together and get tested. And if you are worried about a relationship, discuss it with your boyfriend and find a joint solution.

Answer 2
March, 2021

Fear is normal and sometimes even good when it is justified. And why be afraid in this particular case, I do not understand. The body, in theory, has already formed and is ready for sexual activity. If you are not ready mentally - that's another question.
What else can be ... Legal consequences? Well, you've already reached the age of consent. I can understand the guy's fears - in theory, you can dash off. But apparently he doesn't care about this. What then is the problem?

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