If he does not suit you like that, then there is no real love!
Tell him that you are not suitable for each other, that you need a pumped up one.
Do not torment the guy / man, what if he still finds the one that loves him not for the form, but for what he is
No way O_o If there are brains, but somewhere else muscles are needed, he himself is aware. If the question is a non-sexual figure for you, why are you with him at all? Hoping that love will inspire you to work on your figure? Or were there some advantages that were not found in the pitching? If the first, then parting is just a matter of time. If the latter, then it is worth considering which is more important.
Offer - money! Or a prize? .. But no! Money! Or is it a prize ...
The most correct thing is to start with yourself. Demanding to yourself - you can demand from others. So, I think it is right. Start practicing and (the reasons here can be very different) the young man will follow you.
We just spend less time in social media. networks. :) Good luck, guys. All the best. ;)
For example, throw him a link to this question.
instead of 140, here's Akhmatova.
Come and see me.
Come. I am alive. It hurts.
No one can warm these hands,
These lips said: "Enough!"
Every evening brought to the window
My chair. I see the roads.
Oh, do I reproach you
For the last bitterness of alarm!
I am not afraid of anything on earth,
In heavy gasps turning pale.
Only the nights are terrible because,
I see your eyes in a dream.
I support the previous answers. I will just add that in no case should you run to the argument in the style of "here's Ninka's husband bought a fur coat", i.e. point to third-party examples, which will only cause complexes and jealousy.
I confirm the previous answers with my personal experience. I started with myself, he first took up his nutrition, and then went to the gym. The key is not to impose anything, not to press, and even more so not to hint. Carefully and non-intrusively educate about a healthy lifestyle. It will only work if you yourself follow all this and consider it correct.
Perhaps it is worth showing by example how important this is not only for you, but also for the health and appearance of your half. When you start exercising yourself and achieve results, being in the fitness topic, your boyfriend will want to match you
The previous good advice was given - to start taking care of yourself, I will add only that this should not be a formality. Here is such a universal answer "get it first" is quite in the subject. Well, in general, it makes sense not to be limited by appearance, but by your example to offer to lead a healthy lifestyle, which includes limiting bad habits, controlling nutrition, regimen, timely treatment and self-care. Together, it's much easier. If you have been in the process for a long time, but the other half has not, then you probably need to think about whether it is worth continuing the relationship with this person at all.
In a situation where you want to change your partner, the most beautiful way would be to pull him along. And instead of "Darling, you're flabby!" say "Go to the rocking chair." At least it doesn't look offensive, and he will know that he is not an "outcast", but you are trying it together. This would be the most painless option for me.