How to stop initiating people into your business? How do I stop sharing news?

How to stop initiating people into your business? How do I stop sharing news?

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Answer 1
September, 2021

I perfectly understand this situation, because I know it from myself. When you really suffer from the fact that you have shared information with someone, then the desire to do it again itself will disappear. But the danger is that a lot of unnecessary fears will develop that will interfere with living and communicating.

Probably the best way is not to stop sharing events from your life, but to share it with those people who will not speculate this information and turn it against you. If you still need to communicate with those who are used to doing this, then you need to cut the root of attempts to advise you, teach you life, etc.

I recently saw an excellent quote on the topic, but I don't know the author:

“Doctors ask where it hurts, and press there. By the way, not only doctors do this. ”

Answer 2
September, 2021

This should start to work out by itself when you realize that it really brings inconvenience. Another option is to start speaking out to one person whom you trust more than others - in general, ideally, it could be a psychologist. There is also the option of keeping diaries, but in my practice, it doesn't help that much. Well, an option for lovers of logical reasoning and analysis is to understand why we want to do this, what prevents us specifically in our cases, options for resolving the situation, tests / adjustments, and sooner or later we will resolve this issue.

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