First you need to find out the reason for the appearance of ingrown: dry skin, hyperkeratosis or other reasons. And after that, it is already necessary to select home care individually. Depending on the cause, it can be an ingrown hair lotion / serum, enzyme powder, AHA cream.
I would recommend consulting with your hair removal master, as he will better see your skin reaction and the tim of ingrown hairs. In general, the funds from Aravia Professional helped me a lot - I use a cream with ANA acids, scrub and enzyme powder (depends on the area of use)
Due to ingrown hair, I stopped doing shugaring and took a razor in my hands. Unfortunately, none of the above methods helped me - neither scrubs, nor moisturizing, nor rubbing with a towel. I am already tired of performing "mini-operations" to extract hair, which even without inflammation grows very deeply and you find them in three weeks. In addition, the situation with the mesh on the legs has worsened. Before that there were only a few small stars on the thigh, but now it has grown decently. The master is good, there are many clients, she was always satisfied. But there are too many unpleasant consequences.
Coffee scrubs, salt scrubs and anything. There are thousands of recipes all over the Internet. I was advised to just coffee, I add a little more soap.
There are also creams after depilation and shaving, I really liked the cream spray of the Belarusian company Modum.
But in general, you need to climb shelves for men's shaving and look for different, different products there.