How to convey to a guy that a girl does not get an orgasm, because he does not try, and changing a partner is not an option?

A guy is not obliged to bring anyone to orgasm, just like a girl. If you do not know how to take your own in sex, study, and do not wait for the magician to arrive and give you orgasms.

To speak directly is also not an option, it can develop a complex in a guy, and this will reflect on you. In general, this work is difficult and lengthy. You need to start with hints, prolonging the preludes, show him, in the end, how to do it. But in any case, do not offend him or insult him - you will not end up in problems (especially if you do not want to change your boyfriend). Such a long-term construction took me about a year, but in the end everything was peacefully and calmly resolved, the main thing is patience and love

Words. In general, what does "not try" mean? How - to try? Wait wondered if her husband is trying. Or just knows what to do and does ....

Tell your boyfriend what he needs to do to have an orgasm. If everything is okay with him, he will do as asked.

Can you bring yourself to orgasm yourself? This is an important question. If you can, then refer a partner. Tell me where and how you need to be stimulated. If this does not help, choose a position in which you yourself will need to try and bring the matter to orgasm.

If such situations are not solved, you will not stay in the relationship)

If a guy is not an absolute fool, and a girl does not pretend, then the guy already knows. Maybe he is afraid to start a conversation about it, but the main thing is that he doesn't care. The girl can start to take the initiative and show what she likes.

How, how? Straight. You just take it and talk. It's another matter if you speak but don't see the changes. Then most likely a man does not care about your pleasure, but why is such a man needed?