Giving birth is painful as hell. This is the most intense pain I have experienced in my life. During the fights I screamed like a wounded bear, and this is given the fact that my pain threshold is very high.
Yes, giving birth is natural for the female body. For this, everything is there and everything is very cleverly arranged)) But giving birth is, bitch, painful.
The cool thing about this process is this: on the way from the delivery room to the ward, you are sure that you will never go for it again and for any price, that you have found a fool, oga, and even more - you promise yourself that you will also exclude sex from your life plan, because THIS IS WHAT IT ALL ENDS WITH !!! 11111; and after a while you reset to zero. That is, you remember that it hurt, but remember as a fact, the torso and the brain forget this pain: like, what? Was there something? 😂 No, you haven't.
That is, you will not stick your fingers into the socket the second time, if the first time it was jerked. And you go to give birth a second time.
A natural, uncomplicated birth process is no more painful than renal colic or toothache.
Another thing is that the modern life attitudes of expectant mothers do not at all correspond to the normalization of this physiological act. It is banal to repeat that bad habits, early sexual intercourse, and prenatal abortions, and the fashion for unnatural thinness, and a sedentary lifestyle, and the late age of parturient women interfere with this.
Many rely on the achievements of medicine. But it is always worth remembering that in our modern society, the former HEALTHCARE has long turned into a medical business, medical business and drug fraud. Operations are imposed on women unnecessarily, which were previously resorted to during childbirth only in case of emergency - if there was a threat to the life of the mother or fetus. The obstetrician-gynecologist was seriously responsible for the unjustified death of a child or mother.
The situation is further complicated by the lack of education of young doctors. I recall the statement of the rector of the Moscow medical university that they are forced to graduate such specialists, having come to an appointment in a dream, he wakes up in a cold sweat. And one more striking example from the observations of his own life. My cousin's wife gave birth to her first child through a cesarean section, and with the second she was lucky to get to an experienced doctor who was able to observe her in pregnancy and prepare her for childbirth so that she gave birth on her own, without resorting to surgical intervention.
It was explained to my generation that the mother's body is most prepared for the birth of the first child (which means that the threat of pathology is minimized) at the age of 22-25, and the first birth is the most difficult. All subsequent ones will cause deviations from the natural course of the birth process only if the first is carried out through a cesarean section.
Childbirth is a natural natural function of a woman's body. And if the laws of nature are not violated, everything goes well, the pain is not terrible.
so scared! More - contractions hurt, but not fatally, now, in my opinion, they are anesthetized .. Give birth - how, sorry, poop. Listen to your obstetrician. I didn't have any breaks. But all sorts of passions tell. As anyone.
It all depends on your body and psychological mood. I went to surrender to the hospital with a clear attitude that today I immediately want to give birth as soon as possible. In principle, this is what happened in the end. It is unpleasant and difficult to give birth, it is hard to restrain attempts when you are bursting with, and the doctor asks to endure. Childbirth is a job, it hurts, but not fatal, and in order for everything to go well, you need to listen to the medical staff, and not be hysterical. I gave up the anesthesia and everything went quickly, the most painful was the stitching from the episiotomy (google it), when the ice has not yet worked, they poke a needle into the cut piece of skin. indescribable feelings . After all that I had experienced, I was very hungry and was ready to run home.
It all depends on your pain threshold. Yes, this is perhaps not the most pleasant pastime, but the peak moment is not at all long. Only contractions are excruciating, and if you are not against epidural anesthesia, then before the peak you can pass out from the pain. Although in my case, by the beginning of the active phase, pain still manifested itself. But you will not be allowed to overcome the active phase with anesthesia, since you have to feel the body and help the child, this pain is tearing-terrible, but the brain perceives it somehow differently and it rushes through in seconds and without suffering. There are certain types of exercises, yoga practices that teach us to live childbirth without fear of pain, without anesthesia with full dedication and peace, but I believe more in modern medicine. Still, working out your muscles before giving birth is a great idea. As for the feces, in any maternity hospital you are given an enema before giving birth, so you say goodbye to the feces in advance to avoid unpleasant situations. But, of course, anything is possible, since during childbirth the pressure on the colon and sphincter is enormous.