But nothing. This is "innate". I do not care - it either is or it is not. And it is very difficult to change yourself in this respect. You can, of course, to hide their feelings and emotions behind a mask of nihilists and appear as such in the eyes of others, but in his heart while remaining sensitive and vulnerable man, took to heart their and other people's problems. Something like this ...)
Be! It's hard, I agree, but learn. Do not get hung up on the topic gnawing at you. Try to think about something else. I had so many moments in my life, well, at least get into a loop, I calmed myself. I live in a small town almost all of each other know, you won’t tell anyone, you won’t share, and if you did, then tomorrow he knows if not the city, then half for sure, there are no relatives, there are many “relatives”, then at one fine moment she raised her head high and said to herself, but you don’t you can, so burst with envy, but I don’t care, as I can, I live like this, you’re far from me. And let them think what they want. They don’t think of mine. I’m the best! Luckier! Smarter! And do not lose heart. !
I have already answered this question. Being a pofigist is not difficult for me personally. I don’t get hung up on what people will say, or today I need the edge, well, it’s for me, well, I’ll do it okay tomorrow, but what people will say to me for a long time. About this I have a very long history, as in my youth I was thinking of writing a book about my life, well, maybe everything is still ahead, but in short, even if, well, there are times when something is dumb, I raise my hand and take air and I'll say: fuck you all !!!, but I don't care!
I am often credited with this quality, and I recently learned a phrase that exactly illustrates my attitude to things.
If a problem can be solved, then you should not worry about it, if it cannot be solved, then worry it's useless about her.
Do you work hard? Work even harder. Work so much that such "earthly" problems as self-doubt become garbage in the mind. Unfortunately, the human brain is so arranged that idleness is a reason to run into an inner offense in oneself, notorious and unhappy. A person begins to delve into himself and sees all his minuses, pulls out all his complexes and, as a rule, lowers himself in his own mind below the plinth. Have you noticed that when you are distracted by serious business or even a stupid hobby, you feel like you build up your fighting skills and become an "iron man"? From a set of knowledge, even the most idiotic and unnecessary in life, a person (here, a paradox!) Blossoms and becomes a strong and self-confident person.
1. If you are anxious just walking down the street, then you are insecure about your appearance. If this is within the limits of what you can change yourself - do it! The result of working on yourself will give you confidence. If not, humble yourself, love yourself as you are. In general, to be a nigga you need to love yourself. You are the best, the world revolves around you, and not vice versa. Be self-sufficient, do not expect anything from anyone, try to solve your problems yourself.
2.If you are unsure of your actions. Everything is simple. Or you the pros in some business know him from A to Z, and then you can wipe anyone's nose and you will be confident in what you understand. Or you absolutely do not care about a business that is not yours. It's bad if you are not a pro in any business, master something. The fact that "they could not have done without you here" gives confidence to a person, you should be in demand in your field.
3. Memorize the phrase, everything that does not happen is all for the best. Assimilate it to everything that will happen in your life. Life flows in the course it needs, go with its flow. Be cold-blooded, detained, unperturbed to whatever happens.
In general, the advice is approximate since you did not say what specifically worries you.
Try to load yourself with work. Seriously. Absolutely anyone. Moreover, it does not have to be creative, the main thing is heavy. You can at least move the logs in the park from place to place. The fact is that, firstly, it will distract you from the subject of your feelings, and, secondly, it is thanks to it that you will understand that sometimes you can forget it too much, treat it indifferently.