All people say that I constantly whine, what should I do in this case?

All people say that I constantly whine, what should I do in this case?

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Answer 1
June, 2021

Your question already has an answer. What to do is just stop whining. Start monitoring your speech and stop saying everything that can be attributed to whining - complaints, reproaches, claims. To make it easier to observe your own speech, start following the speech of other people. That is, start noticing the same complaints, claims and reproaches from the words of other people.

You can go further and compose your "Victim Dictionary", and then remove all these words from your speech.

As a rule, life after that changes a lot After all, as we say, so we live.

Answer 2
June, 2021

Whining is a sign of subconscious dissatisfaction. We must recognize and neutralize it. If you really want to change, then track your reactions throughout the day and find out from yourself why you reacted that way.

If something in the behavior of others does not suit you, but you keep silent about it, discontent accumulates and pops up in a completely different place. The reaction can happen in an hour or two and even a day or two after the event itself.

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